ABOUT VALERIE FROST

Valerie Frost is a systems strategist and national speaker advancing the idea that lived experience is a form of authority and that those closest to harm must help govern the systems that shape their lives.

 

Valerie Frost brings together deep policy knowledge, systems analysis, and a new framework for leadership that institutions are only beginning to adopt.

With an M.Ed. and more than a decade of experience in early childhood education, she combines expertise in child development with systems-level leadership informed by her experience navigating the child welfare system as a parent.

Valerie spent more than a decade teaching preschool and kindergarten across several states and founded Kentucky’s first statewide Parent Advisory Council, developing a cohort of parent leaders who went on to influence practice and policy statewide.

Today, she partners with agencies, courts, nonprofits, and cross-sector coalitions nationwide to rethink how family-serving systems engage with, and remain accountable to, the communities they serve.

She has spoken at the White House, delivered a TEDxLakeAlfred 2026 talk, and hosts the Community In-Site podcast.

APPROACH & PERSPECTIVE

Lived Experience as Authority

My work is rooted in navigating complex public systems as a parent. That lived experience is not just part of my story—it is the foundation of my approach.

Parents and directly impacted individuals are experts in their own lives, yet systems too often overlook that expertise. I challenge that status quo by centering lived experience as legitimate knowledge and leadership.

I bring firsthand understanding of how systems operate, and where they fail, and use that insight to help redefine how authority, accountability, and partnership are structured.

Bridging Systems and Community

I work at the intersection of lived experience and institutional systems, helping organizations move toward equity with clarity and accountability.

I understand both how systems operate and how families experience their impact. This dual perspective allows me to translate across power, surface blind spots, and support change that is practical, credible, and grounded in respect.

FOUNDATIONAL PRINCIPLES

At the core of Valerie's work is a clear premise: those most affected by systems must have real power in shaping them.

These principles guide how she approaches leadership, governance, and systems change.


Belonging

Belonging is more than inclusion. It is being recognized as a legitimate participant in decisions that affect your life.

Too often, families impacted by systems are present but not empowered. Valerie works with organizations to move beyond symbolic inclusion toward structures that recognize families, advocates, and professionals as accountable partners with shared authority.

Power

Power is often concentrated in systems least accountable to the people they affect.

Valerie's work focuses on redistributing power by helping organizations build structures where families and communities hold real decision-making authority. This includes challenging traditional hierarchies and supporting new forms of leadership that shift power from control to accountability.

Voice

The voices of parents and directly impacted individuals hold essential knowledge about how systems actually function.

Valerie's work ensures those voices are not just heard, but positioned to influence decisions, policy, and accountability. She supports emerging leaders in translating lived experience into sustained influence.

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING

  • "My recent community-based co-design projects as an externally funded public health researcher have been incalculably improved by the collaboration and facilitation skills Valerie has contributed to our system navigation learning community and resource hub development efforts. Her expertise is so valuable that we have appointed her as community affiliate faculty with the University of Kentucky College of Public Health, reflecting her capacity to not only flawlessly execute but also conceptualize and evaluate community engagement initiatives. Valerie brings singular creativity, joy, process orientation, leadership, and vision to any team that is fortunate enough to collaborate with her as a writer, facilitator, educator, and advocate."

    — Margaret McGladrey, PhD, Assistant Professor, Department of Health Management and Policy, College of Public Health, University of Kentucky